← Journal

We made the biggest decision of our lives from a hospital bed.

18 June 2026

I'm putting together the slides for the upcoming workshop, putting all the tips and tools we use to build the life we want.

It reminded me of when I was most fearful.

In a hospital bed alone during lockdown. Dealing with a life threatening illness. My businesses crumbling because I wasn't in it. People I trusted trying to sue me. Kids not knowing why I wasn't there. Burning through savings. Not knowing if i'd see my family again. Everything I had built in dust.

Kinda makes you worry about the future. Reassess your choices.

I facetimed my wife.

We talked about what we would do when we got through this.

We were facing a fork in life's road.

Keep things the same - the things that had put us in this situation - or go a different path.

That path looked scary.

But I had a tool we wanted to try.

Fear Setting.

It flipped fear into actionable clarity, minimised anxiety, defined, confronted, and defused our biggest fears.

That day we made the biggest boldest decisions without regret.

It changed everything.

Today my life is uncrecognisable. I feel blessed every day. Life 2.0.

Its a crazy story, in the book of my life - it's an episode, a chapter.

You don't need to wait till life crumbles. (In fact definitely don't do that)